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A
difficult time
The
lunch supervisor called the Head Teacher to comfort
and listen to a distressed child making accusations
against other children. His mum was phoned and told
us her son was so unhappy that the family was considering
leaving the island. An immediate investigation began
and other incidents came to light. There was disbelief
that such a terrible thing could happen in our supportive
wee school, in our close community.
The
truth emerged. There was a 'nobody tells tales' code
among the children, and there was name calling and 'games'
such as 'Let's all hide from X' and 'Let's pretend X
is invisible'. The dominant group of children were excluding
other children. The excluding children saw it just as
'a game'. 'Bullying' was not how they saw it or described
it, and in the eyes and minds of parents and pupils,
'bullies' were stereotypically bigger, tough boys who
hit younger, weak children. Our dominant group of pupils
were not like this but their 'games' were still a kind
of bullying that caused real distress.
The
small size of the island and its community, strengths
in so many ways, also make exclusion of any kind particularly
painful as there is no alternative community or group
to turn to. Self-sufficient small communities can also
seem less welcoming to 'newcomers' or even to those
who live in more distant parts of the island. We were
fortunate that our strong School Board and its non-teacher
and non-parent members were able to take a constructively
dispassionate view of the situation and to support us
through the three hard months of resolving all the issues.
A workshop for parents and the School Board was organised
on the subject of Bullying. The adults were asked to
help draw up a school policy on Anti-Bullying and the
pupils were fully consulted. All the pupils had lessons
on the subject of bullying and the message given clearly
that children must tell and adults must listen and observe.
The staff learned that bullying can happen in any school,
that its prevention must be given a high priority and
that monitoring is needed in and out of the school.
Golden
rules and taking children's views seriously
The
pupils are consulted about the priorities in the School
Development Plan - what do they think the school should
improve and how do they think this could be achieved?
The school is part of the whole community but the children
are its reason for existing.
Each
session the children draw up rules for indoors and outdoors.
The over-riding Golden Rule is 'Let pupils learn and
teachers teach'. This year pupils were asked to look
carefully at their work in class and their play outside
and to produce rules that would improve any behaviours
that impeded the main rule. The friendly informality
of a small familiar community was threatening to become
just too informal and chatty - important business was
not getting done. Their observations were astute - they
decided on:
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Listen
without fiddling with things |
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Remain
silent when teachers are talking (our bairns are
direct in speech, the original wording was 'Shut
up when teachers are talking') |
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Follow
instructions, (again, the original wording was 'Read
for yourself before you say you're stuck') |
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Complete
all tasks carefully |
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And
for outside: |
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Include
everyone in games |
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Take
care of school property |
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Be
ready to say, 'Sorry' |
The
reward system takes the form of small slips of paper
quietly placed on a desk for the child to date and sign
then put into the former Worries Box. Then on a Friday
afternoon there is a lucky dip to see who will get free
time with a friend. The more slips any child earns,
the greater his or her chance is of winning. There is
a Suggestions Box in the porch, originally intended
for parents' use but pupils also post messages into
it so it is brought in on Fridays and the issues inside
discussed. Some requests can be agreed or not allowed
at that time. Others may have to be discussed more widely
or go to the School Board.
Sometimes
a slip will have a pupil problem such as:
'People
should not be allowed to go on other peoples property
without permishon. Because Jane went on my rola blades
after school without permishon. Helen'
This
was plainly an opportunity to discuss courtesy, ownership
and sharing. Sometimes there is a request for equipment,
in this case readily granted:
'Can
we get a basketball net on the wall outside for playtimes?'
Sometimes
other suggestions have policy implications:
'When
the weather is nice can we do our work outside?'
With
our commitment to an ecologically sound way of life
on the island this request made sense but it must be
planned in ways that don't detract from teaching and
learning effectiveness. However, a request that pupils
be allowed to ride their cycles in the playground during
breaks was refused on the grounds of safety for smaller
or non-cycling children.
The
children know that their notes will be given careful
consideration, action taken when appropriate and reasons
given for the action or non action. The important thing
is that their messages are taken seriously.
Accepting
responsibility for self and others
Being
a small school with a small staff presents logistical
problems. Having the full range of stages with differing
abilities within these is difficult. Each child has
the same entitlement to an appropriate education as
they would if they were in a class only with their age
peers. So staff must be resourceful and pupils collaborative
and flexible. An example of this is in the teaching
of basic German, intended originally for older pupils
but actually learned by all, mainly through video and
songs. Although the older ones learn more, even the
five year olds ask, 'Darf ich auf die Toilette?'.
We
have a Kumpel (buddy) system in which older and younger
children are paired, partners changing termly, as requested
by the children. If the teacher is busy then younger
children can go to their big Kumpels for help. In project
work pairs often work together. It is the older child's
responsibility to look out for their wee Kumpel at playtimes.
At the end of the day, tidy-up tasks - the list was
drawn up by the class - are also done in pairs. For
the older children, all this will help them adjust to
greater autonomy when they move to secondary school
in Shetland.
Children
need to feel good about themselves if they are to accept
responsibility for others. Another idea we had to promote
respect for self and each other and a sense of belonging,
was to have a classroom wall, Wir Waa (See Picture C),
for the children's display of anything they want to
share with the others, for example, photographs, a toy,
weaving or drawings. Each child chooses whether, and
what, to contribute and may substitute a new item whenever
she or he wants.
Our
next Parents' Night will be run by pupils themselves,
with pupils selecting most improved work to show, answering
questions on their own learning, making and serving
the tea. The Head Teacher will just be a background
resource.
Becoming
entrepreneurial
Pupils
have increasingly been given opportunities for decision
making. We decided to undertake an enterprise project
to produce goods to sell when visiting cruise ships
call. Passengers come up to the community hall where
island crafts get displayed on stalls. We wanted to
make money for a school trip. The older pupils took
marketing advice on the kind of items that would sell
and that pupils could make. They managed the project
which involved developing skills and understanding right
across the curriculum, including 'customer skills' of
which they had little understanding because of their
own inexperience of being customers.
All
the children took turns at the stall (See Picture D).
We received the Motorola Award for Excellence in Education
for Work and Enterprise in August this year. We made
enough money for a school trip to Orkney aboard the
hundred year old Fifie boat 'The Swan', a former fishing
boat now run by a Trust.
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